Friday, October 31, 2025
Flower for the Day Fall Boneset 10-31-25
Wednesday, October 29, 2025
Don's Blog "The One Where We Have A Wedding" 9-20-25
Saturday we sponsored a wedding at the Lake House on Lake Aspen at Innsbrook, Missouri.Sherry (the bride) and Lou (the groom) are longtime friends and we were excited to have the ceremonyon the dock by the lake.It was a small wedding but the planning and the preparation were intricate. Parking was made easier when all four of my neighbors offered their driveways. The site worked great as the trees shaded us from the sun. The forecast of rainwas incorrect - we would not have cared. We were ready to have a joyous time no matter what.Sherry surprised me by asking me to accompany her down the aisle - a winding steep walkway. This was a first for me as we had all boys. How do you like our flowers? I gave her a hug and presented her to the groom.The ceremony was a treat. The bride and groom are to the left of the minister with the maid of honor andthe best man on either side. We were all moved.Jan and I got to sit in the front row. We are blessed.The star of the show was Sherry's Grandson Blake. With the age of the guests many had an opportunityto go down the hill (and back up) in our golf cart. Blake who drives FAST racers in Dirt Car Races had not drivenan electric golf cart before and was amazed at its quietness. He helped them in and out and got them to their seats.His kindness and patience were an amazing gift to us all.After cupcakes and punch in the front of the house, the bride and groom headed for the party in Montgomery City.It was an inspiration to participate in Sherry and Lou's wedding. You can be sure that we will not be going into the wedding business.
Here are the bride and groom on the steps of the Historic Log cabin.
Monday, October 27, 2025
Flower for the Day Taterian Aster 10-27-25
The plant overall is coarse, with large leaves and thick stems. The flowers are borne in late autumn, violet ray florets and brown disc florets.
Aster
Thy modest charms are hiding;
Content with humbly doing good,
And in God's love abiding.
But though the world observes thee not,
In one fond heart thou'rt treasured;
And bright indeed must be the lot,
That shares a love unmeasured.
Saturday, October 25, 2025
Yesterday
I got up early, had a light breakfast, packed the car with food and meds and drove to the Lake House. I stopped at Wright City Hardware for a fireplace lighter with a long handle. On arrival the house was cold. The furnace was not working. The Ecobee thermostat was dark. The Spectrum TV downstairs was working. My phone and the computer indicated that there was no internet. Touching the thermostat did nothing. Checking the left electric box in the basement showed the power was on for the furnace - breaker on.
I called Survant Heating as Chris had very recently done a clean and check. They agreed to send Chris out. I called Spectrum and a nice lady trying to sell me something also told me how to re-boot the internet - I had to go to the basement to unplug two Spectrum boxes on a back basement shelf for a few minutes and this got me back the internet.
The computer was working and my phone had bars and was working.
Another reason for the visit was to get the propane tank filled. I changed all batteries in the two fireplaces and the two hand held starters. The truck had not arrived yet so I called the company (Amerigas). In the midst of the call the call was lost. After multiple attempts i noted that in the upper left corner it said "SOS only. I did not know what that meant. Luckily the phone text component still worked so I was in contact with Jan. She called several people. Sherry arrived and was helpful. I drove to the clubhouse to get the phone to work but it did not work there either. Sherry waited in my absence for the two people coming. I came back and we started using Sherry's phone (non AT&T). About an hour later Jan texted that the Innsbrook Property Owner's Facebook page reported that the entire area's AT&T was offline and not working.
As I was calling Amerigas again the truck showed up. It was the same driver as the last time. He reported the the tank was completely empty and that made it dangerous. He did a successful leak-check and began filling the tank.
At this time Chris showed up from Survant. He noted how cold the house was.He checked the dark Ecobee thermostat
and found that 'SOMEONE" had bumped it and that it wasn't working because it had physically lost its connection. He pushed it back in and the furnace started working. He left to my thanks.
The tank was now full and the Amerigas guy tried to light the fireplaces. that did not work so I will have to schedule a fireplace repair man that I have used before to come fix them. In the mean time we left the propane tank handle
on on the outside and closed firmly the handle at the back of each fireplace on the side. This should be safe until the repairman comes. We will not attempt to light them in the meantime.
In the middle of this Jan texted the Spectrum was burying a new orange cable in our front yard and they were not friendly.
So now at IB the home was heating up, the Ecobee was working, we had a full propane tank, the TV and computers were working. The phone was still offline. I ate lunch, did a few things and drove home. The phone started working after leaving when I was on the road.
When I got home the Spectrum cable was now buried. I went inside and Jn was still put out. The 2 TV's , the upstairs computer, and the phones and iPads and even the land line phone did not work. I went outside to 5G and called Spectrum. They said they could get a tech out Monday. Then realizing how absurd that was she said she would contact an emergency tech.who would contact us tonight or tomorrow. After dark about 6:00 there was knock on the door. It was a very nice tech who said that he had done the line burying and connection. He was training someone who did not do a correct connection. This tech re-connected it. I went everywhere and checked all the items (TVs, computer, iPads, land line phone. eSeries. tc.) and WAHLAH everything worked. I ate dinner and watched Toronto beat the Dodgers in the first game of the World Series. Tired at bedtime.
Other than that not much was going on.
That is my story and am sticking to it.
DAD
Thursday, October 23, 2025
Flower for the Day Mums and Pumpkins 10-24-25
The Pumpkin
Oh, greenly and fair in the lands of the sun, The vines of the gourd and the rich melon run, And the rock and the tree and the cottage enfold, With broad leaves all greenness and blossoms all gold, Like that which o'er Nineveh's prophet once grew, While he waited to know that his warning was true, And longed for the storm-cloud, and listened in vain For the rush of the whirlwind and red fire-rain. On the banks of the Xenil the dark Spanish maiden Comes up with the fruit of the tangled vine laden; And the Creole of Cuba laughs out to behold Through orange-leaves shining the broad spheres of gold; Yet with dearer delight from his home in the North, On the fields of his harvest the Yankee looks forth, Where crook-necks are coiling and yellow fruit shines, And the sun of September melts down on his vines. Ah! on Thanksgiving day, when from East and from West, From North and from South comes the pilgrim and guest; When the gray-haired New Englander sees round his board The old broken links of affection restored, When the care-wearied man seeks his mother once more, And the worn matron smiles where the girl smiled before, What moistens the lip and what brightens the eye? What calls back the past, like the rich Pumpkin pie? Oh, fruit loved of boyhood! the old days recalling, When wood-grapes were purpling and brown nuts were falling! When wild, ugly faces we carved in its skin, Glaring out through the dark with a candle within! When we laughed round the corn-heap, with hearts all in tune, Our chair a broad pumpkin,—our lantern the moon, Telling tales of the fairy who travelled like steam In a pumpkin-shell coach, with two rats for her team! Then thanks for thy present! none sweeter or better E'er smoked from an oven or circled a platter! Fairer hands never wrought at a pastry more fine, Brighter eyes never watched o'er its baking, than thine! And the prayer, which my mouth is too full to express, Swells my heart that thy shadow may never be less, That the days of thy lot may be lengthened below, And the fame of thy worth like a pumpkin-vine grow, And thy life be as sweet, and its last sunset sky Golden-tinted and fair as thy own Pumpkin pie!
John Greenleaf Whittier
Wednesday, October 22, 2025
Flower for the Day American Burnweed 10-22-25
bold burnweed soars, shares nectar
Monday, October 20, 2025
Don's Blog Fall Odds and Ends 10-20-25
Friday, October 17, 2025
Don's Blog: A Peaceful Place
Flower for the Night Moon Flower II
Tuesday, October 14, 2025
Flower for the Day Oriental Lady's Thumb 10-15-25
(Persicaria posumbu). Its other names include Asiatic smartweed, bristled knotweed, bunchy knotweed, and long-bristled smartweed. Those without imagination may call it a weed. It is a non native Asian annual.
Monday, October 13, 2025
Flower for the Day New England Aster 10-13-25
The genus name, Symphyotrichum, is a Botanical Latin construction derived from the Greek meaning to make or bring together and hair. The species' former genus, Aster, comes from the Ancient Greek word for star.
The flowers have multiple ray florets. These surround the flower centers which are composed of just as many tiny yellow disk florets. The plant grows naturally in clumps, with several erect stems emerging from a single point. The stems are stout, hairy, and mostly unbranched. The untoothed, lance-shaped leaves clasp the stem with earlobe-like appendages, and the lower stem leaves often wither by the time of flowering.
New England Asters
They're firing purple from the rock wall,
shouting hurrahs amid gloriosas,
towering on leggy stalks
near the rose trellis, before the frost.
The dames are taking over.
Fringy and sticky, drunk with nectar,
they lean and swagger,
staging a revolution.
Volunteers from last year's seeds
spring up near the house,
and new forces bivouac
down the long dirt drive,
ready to occupy the roadside
past the mailbox.
Shovel in hand, I am fully enlisted
in the cause of late bloomers.
I transplant rootstock,
shake out new progeny,
post ensigns amid the wan and cheerless,
marshal troops down desolate hollows,
seed my universe with stars.
Wednesday, October 8, 2025
Flower for the Day Moonflower 10-8-25
Moonflowers
Monday, October 6, 2025
Flower for the Day Dahlia II 10-6-25
Friday, October 3, 2025
Flower for the Day Morning Glory 10-3-25
Morning Glory/Late Lament
Cold hearted orb that rules the night,
Removes the colours from our sight.
Red is grey and yellow white,
But we decide which is right.
And which is an illusion?
Pinprick holes in a colourless sky,
Let insipid figures of light pass by,
The mighty light of ten thousand suns,
Challenges infinity and is soon gone.
Night time, to some a brief interlude,
To others the fear of solitude.
Brave Helios wake up your steeds,
Bring the warmth the countryside needs.
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Breathe deep the gathering gloom,
Watch lights fade from every room.
Bedsitter people look back and lament,
Another day's useless energy spent.
Impassioned lovers wrestle as one,
Lonely man cries for love and has none.
New mother picks up and suckles her son,
Senior citizens wish they were young.
Cold hearted orb that rules the night,
Removes the colours from our sight.
Red is grey and yellow white,
But we decide which is right.
And which is an illusion?
Graeme Edge
Wednesday, October 1, 2025
Flower for the Day Celosia 10-1-25
Fourteen or fifteen.
